http://growingleaders.com/blog/first-soft-skill-develop-students/
It's sad to say that what this article discusses, about teens and young adults, is true to most. Being a teenager myself, I can understand the struggle that we face as well the employer.
In the workforce, youth are going to face many challenges. The biggest one I think is most challenging is adapting to the workforce atmosphere. Where you must come in looking professional, on time, and knowing how to present yourself and respond to your employer and coworkers. As a teenager I understand this is hard for us because we come from a hustled and casual background of high school and college. In high school, we have a strict schedule and grades are everything. So our look didn't have as much importance. In college, the young adults have a more lax schedule and have less importance of dress (unless involved in a certain class), but have an importance of grades. For most of the young adults live's, they live having to hold up their grades, so naturally, the other aspects ( dress, cooperation, etc.) of the workforce lose some meaning. So adapting to the workforce and upholding these new aspects is the big switch to learn the ways of the workforce. There's more to it than just grades. You need to be dressed nice, know how to cooperate with your co-workers, and do what's best for the company, not yourself.
What was mainly discussed in this article was social intelligence. According to the article, the definition of social intelligence is "the capacity to effectively negotiate complex social relationships and environments." Basically, being in the workforce requires you to know what to say, what to do, and how to do/say it when with other coworkers or your superiors in certain situations. For example, there was a dispute about the printer being broken and their is a rule that the last to see it broken or breaks it is the one to fix it. However, no one knows who was the last. So your co-workers have been looking for whose to blame, pointing fingers. Instead of proving your innocence, communicate to them that we only need to fix it. Looking for the culprit wastes time, and decreases production time. This way, the immediate problem is solved and time is saved. You used your social intelligence to bring your co-workers together instead of avoiding the situation by protecting yourself. One person's problem is everyone's problem.
I enjoyed this article very much, especially the section about the neurological breakdown of social intelligence. It makes the topic easier to understand and put it into facts and simple context.
It discusses how the social relationships we have with others can have a direct effect on our health. Like if your around your crush, your temperature may increase or have a faster heartbeat. So it makes sense that to have a healthy relationship with others means a healthier you. This also applies vis versa. The reason I enjoy this section so much is that I know so many of us can relate to this. Last year I was given a task by a friend of mine, and I held this person in very high respect. They were my role model. However, I failed to it. My friend was very disappointed and lost some respect for me. I was very much effected by it, not just mentally but physically. The next few days I was in poor health because of our relationship. Until the end of the week, we finally made up and as our relationship got better, I got better.
So having a strong relationship with others is one important step to better your social intelligence. As well as yourself.